Want to KNOW about me.....
Feb 20, 2019
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hey guys welcome to my day as I'm
sitting here looking at my beautiful my
beautiful complexion instead of looking
at you anyways where that came from but
alright I guess it works right okay so I
am doing this a video with a
collaboration with life by Jin she
approached me and asked if I want to do
a Q&A; with her and I was like yeah I
think that would be awesome it would not
only be able to give her viewers a kind
of an insight on me but then my my
viewers get to see more of an insight of
Jin however a lot of our youtuber
subbies are we both have each other's
YouTube soo subbies because you're all
awesome and we just love having you guys
on our channel so anyways but we wanted
to do a Q&A; and I thought that that
would be really fun so I went on
Facebook I asked a whole bunch of people
to ask questions and not hold back you
can ask anything you want um with some
just just a smidge of protection no just
joking so I am going to start answering
some questions and I will link life by
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channel she is an amazing amazing woman
she is on a same type of journey as I am
in all aspects and we are so much of the
same person so if you enjoy me I know
you're gonna enjoy Jen she's just a
beautiful person inside and out I just
love her to death okay so here are my
questions for you well actually my
answers for you okay
Kym nesler what made you start a youtube
channel originally I started because I
wanted to do shopping hauls however as
my channel was just kind of like it was
just there it was it wasn't active
active but you know I I don't really
enjoy shopping a whole lot
I enjoy it to a point if it's got reason
but just to go shop just to shop I just
don't have that niche so it really
wasn't what I was cutting myself out for
when I did the shopping hauls and not
saying they didn't enjoy what I was
doing but I didn't enjoy what I was
doing if that all makes any sense
whatsoever probably not um so for me I
just was like you know it I just wasn't
filling it so I kind of was not really
nurturing my channels per se until in
July when I decided to start my life
journey and I thought at that point this
would be an amazing time to take
everybody along with me and share with
you guys the ends the outs the UPS the
Downs the beauty and the ugly parts of
healing and that goes everything from
emotional healing physical healing abuse
hillyne it just everything in between
and I think that me sharing my story has
not only helped multiple women
reach out and start their own journeys
of healing but also letting people know
that they're not alone in this healing
process that is not easy whatsoever to
do and that there will always be someone
there for them me and that I will always
be there to hold their hand during the
times that are the toughest for them so
that's what really kind of intrigued me
to continue to do my channel but to
change my channel from shopping halls to
more of a journey of my life
to share with others um Cruz Lopez do
you want more children well as most of
you guys know I did just share with you
guys yesterday in a video that I pretty
much was diagnosed with endometriosis it
was not diagnosed through endoscope II
endoscopy I don't know how to say that
they did not go up inside and do the
actual visual check but with everything
that I was telling my doctor that I have
been experiencing from my periods to the
pain that I endured during the month out
of the month of my periods and with
intimacy and things like that so with
everything that I've explained to him he
pretty much is like you know I can
pretty much 99% guarantee that you have
endometriosis these are the things that
we can deal with the situation meaning
you know he could give me an oral birth
control to help manage the pain and the
bleeding but along with oral comes a lot
of other side effects meaning gain
weight weight gain mood swing changes
high blood pressure and all of the above
that I don't want to deal with so my
aspects would be an IUD being placed in
me and at that point it that is a
commitment that I have to make and that
Holly and I both have to make and so
it's not an easy decision because along
with that goes the question where you
ask do you want more children I have
been on the fence about having more
children since I had asura because I did
do back-to-back
deliveries between Omar nasara I was
delivering within 11 months of apart
from each other both c-sections my
pregnancies were great my deliveries
were great there was nothing that tells
me I cannot have any more children my
body wise but if I am dealing with and
suffering from endometriosis I do want
to also take care of that and I am also
gonna be 38 this year so we've got a lot
of things like kind of weighing up
against us so I really don't know right
now you know our our the question mark
is really above our heads at this moment
and we haven't took the plunge to make
that final decision just yet if it's
something we're gonna pursue in or or
what so stay tuned we'll definitely be
taking you guys along with this journey
from our aspects and what we're dealing
with and if we decide to have another
one you guys will be the first to know
so yeah Stacey Rodriguez most
embarrassing moment as an adult oh my
god do I really have to go there because
it's embarrassing my husband's gonna
kill me when he sees this video and be
like why did you even have to go there
Amy because I want to do so every year
for our anniversary we go out for a
restaurant it's our same restaurant we
go to it's hooked to the casino no it's
not in the casino though I get that
question why like a lot like how do you
guys go to the casino if you're not
allowed to go to the casino first and
foremost we can go wherever we want to
go but we do not go gambling just
because we just don't have money to go
and throw around so we do not go into
the gambling spot but we love going to
the casino restaurant saj buffet type
thing we didn't get to go the last ii
last year we didn't go one because I was
on my started on my journey and I just
didn't feel like it was a place that I
would really feel good about being at so
early into my weight loss journey so
anyways but one year we did go this was
about three years ago and we were
sitting in like a half booth so there
was people behind us people on the sides
of us you know the whole Jeff and my
sweet husband
was sitting across from me kind of like
you know cuz I said it's like a moon
booth and I felt this urge like I needed
to hmm I needed a pass gasps oh no
making more making more room so I lifted
up like you know I knew it was just
gonna be a quiet one like I just knew it
was well the seats were like a leather
so that did not help in my situation
whatsoever and my poor husband was right
in the middle of a bite and I lifted up
and I just was like oh my god
all the colour came out of my face
because I was just like holy crap that
just did not happen like this did not
happen my husband and his mid-bite or
whatever he was he was like hmm like oh
I think my husband wanted to crawl under
the table and just act like he did not
even exist at that moment because we
know that there had been people that
heard it like there's just no way around
it I could not contain myself and of
course you're talking Amy like the one
that honestly when I start laughing it
just it doesn't stop anybody that knows
me which you all pretty much do once it
starts it doesn't go away so I laughed
through the rest of the time that we
were at dinner I just come busting up
because I would think about it and then
I would just start dying and of course I
wasn't gonna give my embarrassing but up
back up to go get any more food slice I
send my husband on the walk of shame to
go give me more cuz of course I could
not show my face cuz I know one that
ripped apart he was like I cannot
believe you I cannot believe you why why
do I even take you into public anymore
oh my gosh I'm crying I was a ho it was
bad that was the most embarrassing time
in my life as an adult that would
automatically be it um
okay so let me scroll down I'm getting
the questions off of my Facebook that
people asked me okay if you didn't have
to sleep what would you do with the
extra time
um I think spend more time with my
children and my husband if they didn't
have to sleep either
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and also just continuing to strive to be
that better person that I've always
wanted to be and if I didn't have to
sleep I'd have more time in the day to
continue to focus on that um what job
would you be terrible at oh my god well
if I had to be in a situation where
somebody like ripped farts and stuff
like say if I was like if I was a
caregiver you guys plus those workers
hearts because if I was one of them and
one of the worker like one of the
patients let a big ol rip out I would I
would just it'd be done for I'd probably
be fired because I'd be laughing too
hard for some reason farts and me are
just too funny I don't know what it is
I'm like a kid art when anybody's farts
I just laugh doesn't matter where I'm at
I was out dollar tree the other day yep
you guys already seen that hall and
someone on the other aisle what a fart
out and I was on one aisle they were on
the other aisle and I'm sure they heard
me laugh because I bust it up as a
second I heard it I mean it was like a I
was like I could go check your pants
kind of fart oh my god I'm killing
myself here okay which youtuber would
get the most credit for you starting to
upload um you know I started watching H
Kitty
vlogs and her name is Melissa Mendoza
she is a sweetheart she's absolutely
amazing and she does family vlogs on top
of she has to channel she has her family
vlog channel and then she also has a
beauty channel and you know I don't tend
to watch the beauty channels
much at all because it's just not really
been my like my thing but I love the
family vlog channel because I just love
watching other families and how they do
things and the fun activities that they
do and the traveling that they do and
things like that so I would have to say
that she would probably get the most
credit would be her and then probably
Beauty and the Beast ins is another
channel that I watch a lot of and
they're a family vlog um well she found
a vlog not they don't post daily like
each kitty will she post every day
lately not as much because her schedule
has gotten really busy which I
completely understand but Beauty and the
Beast ins does a lot of like cleaning
videos and family vlog style videos as
well cooking videos and also each Kitty
does some cooking videos she does
shopping hauls like grocery hauls and
stuff some clothing holes but not very
much I don't see her buy very much on
clothing unless it's a must like I
really really really really admire her
because I really use a lot of her
techniques and the spin when you need to
and savor what you can so I really she
really has inspired me with my uploading
um what songs have you completely
memorized zero I do not memorize songs
for nuttin I will sing along because I
really don't know any of songs so I just
mumble around the ones that I don't know
which is most of them and then I seem
like the course because the course is
the easiest part to save um let's see
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Stephanie AB AB um I know I just
butchered that last name I'm so sorry
would you your family ever consider
moving to Egypt short answer no I think
that
you know my children are very adjusted
here in the States
there's nothing wrong with Egypt in all
fairness other than you know the
lifestyles are much different and so to
go and visit you guys look what I just
noticed like look at this green
nastiness I hear I'm sitting here
recording not even paying attention to
what's going on and nobody's pointed it
out to me did you guys catch that cuz
you can't anyways um you know there's
nothing wrong with Egypt that's not what
I'm saying I to go and visit Egypt
absolutely hands down we want to go and
visit visit Egypt when the time is right
but to live no I don't think either one
of us are at all interested in actually
going to live there um Linda do you Anna
Lee pray together sometimes it just
depends on the situation when he's gonna
go pray when you know so it just all
depends what was the first thing that
attracted to each other um I want to say
his his ambitions his go-getter you like
personality the the he's always so
loving and compassionate I love that
about him and that really intrigued me
to want to get more you know get to know
him more for me to him I don't know I'm
not him so I can't answer that but that
would be a great question to ask him
though
what was the what was all these first
thoughts about when he first came to
America besides losing his shoes yeah
yeah I know right um he was just I think
he was a little bit in like culture
shock in the sense that like the way
that you know people dress here and walk
down the street like when he first came
here we were driving down the street and
there was a lady walking in her bikini
just walking away and I'm like first of
all it's January so what
the worldly doing woman and to get some
clothes on but I turned to him and I was
like welcome to America he looked at me
and just smiled like oh okay um okay F
Shawn Mayan I want to ask you about the
cute his job see where well so I have
multiple his jobs honestly I do I here
is like my bucket excuse the fact that I
have a little bit of absolutely
everything in here okay as I'm trying to
pull my stuff out but they're these are
just like my head pieces like these
things and these things pull and then
down below in my drawer I have all of my
raps and then these I get from Amazon
and they're really comfortable and I
really really like them they're easy you
just pull them on over your face and
you're good to go okay what is the one
thing you wish you had done that you
haven't um I think that I wish I would
have gotten a bachelor's degree and the
career that I wanted to do but I don't
think those same I don't think those
wishes are still there because I think
that my life has changed so much as
becoming a mom and becoming a wife and
do you have any regrets absolutely not
I think if you live in the life of
regrets then that's just a really sad
life for you
I think things happen for all the
reasons that they do and I think that
every situation in life is a learning
situation so some things are better than
others yes but I don't think that I
would ever say that I actually live in
regret of something um
Pamela Garmin what is something you
regret on life the same question Pamela
Garmin do you take medication for your
mental issues yes I do I take lexapro
for my depression I have births Pirin
for my anxiety / mood swings and I take
those on it daily because if I don't I
would be
hot mad mess um we okay let's see hold
on just a second you guys do you do
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okay are you usually early or late I am
usually early as long as I have to say
in the car in the will in my hand then
we're early but if my husband has any
say in it then we're always about 10 to
15 minutes late yeah what it takes too
much of your time I think sometimes
worrying I think takes up too much of my
time I think sitting and trying to
figure out what I can do to change
things around I think changes like takes
up too much of my time so I would have
to say worrying what are some small
things that make your day better I think
like little hugs for my babies and I
love you from my oldest son and you know
only just to come in and just give me a
hug for any reason other than just to
give me a hug
always makes my days so much better what
TV show or movie do you refuse to watch
oMG I refuse to watch anything that has
to do with abuse at all like at all I
just can't handle it it takes me it's
too many flashbacks like if there's a
movie that has to do with anything with
like rape or a woman being beat or
anything like that or a child being beat
I can't watch it like I literally just
it makes me sick to my stomach so I just
don't do it
um let's see what have you only recently
formed an opinion about um you know
that's a really good question but I
think my my change of thought has grown
so much since I have matured a lot in
the last couple of years means that this
last presidential debate would be the
first actual thing that I ever ever have
voted on and I think that that just
comes from the whole I think just taking
the time to actually learn what things
mean I think is what has created me to
allow myself to have an actual opinion
and I see that I do have more an opinion
now than I ever did before
what are your what are you interested in
that most people haven't
heard of um I don't I don't really think
that I have anything that I haven't
shared with anybody that I would be most
interested with what is the most
annoying question that people ask you um
I'd have to say probably does my husband
control me
does he hurt me does he force me to
dress the way that I dress does he force
me to be in the religion that I choose
to be in I think those are what are
annoying to me because anybody that
truly takes the time to know my husband
and I would absolutely already know that
answer which would be false on every
single one of them so I think that would
be my most annoying question that I get
and I haven't been asked that very often
but I have been asked that at times um
what is something you think everyone
should do at least once in their lives I
think something that everybody should do
is go beyond the point that you think
you can actually do something meaning
for me I never in my life ever ever ever
traveled before going to Egypt other
than to like California and stuff but
that was always family that was not
anything that I did like by myself I've
never traveled alone so taking you know
taking that opportunity to travel and
find myself I think was one of the most
amazing things that I did for myself
because when I finished that and
complete travel and came back to the US
I was able to look back at myself and be
like wow Amy you did something you never
ever thought was possible like you never
ever would have seen yourself travel
like that
so going beyond where you think that you
what you can do personally what is
something that a ton of people are
obsessed with but you just don't get the
point of
I don't know I don't have an answer for
that one to be honest I really don't uh
next question what's something you've
been meaning to try but just haven't
gotten around to it
I think probably trying to write a book
write some type of autograph of my life
to share the ins and outs of everything
that I have ever gone through so that
you know people know that you know
reading my story and if there is
something or have dealt with similar
situations that they're not alone okay a
few more questions and then I will close
wearing hijab is it hot um it can be at
times I mean there's been times where
I've been warm I mean right now I'm
sitting in front of a fan to cool off
because I was really hot before I sat
down how many do I have too many to
count how do I keep in how do I keep I
don't even know my last question okay
do you like your name I love my name my
name is kinda from the south
my father side the family was they were
from North Carolina so the South you
know they have that the accent of the
southern people and so originally he
wanted to name me Emily a male1 user
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my great-grandfather is Ivan Lee
my grandfather is Bonnie Lee and then I
am Amy Lee and then my father's name is
Leon or Lonnie Leon so there's a lot of
Lee's that drags into my name and it's
funny because when I was little I wanted
to have a little girl and named her
Emily and in alae
and I have a great a great great aunt
and her name is Annalise
so it's really pretty but yes there's a
lot of Anna's and Amma aim amaz Anna's
and Anna Lee and so yeah that's kind of
where that all draws into his so I kind
of got my mom's side but I also got a
lot of my dad's side as well on his
mom's side
so my grandmother's side mm-hmm
are you a messy or clean person I want
to consider myself both there are days
where I am just high tailed need to
scrub my house it's got to be squeaky
shiny clean and then there's other days
where I'm just like yeah all right you
know I really don't care but by the time
I go to bed at night you best believe my
house is clean before I go to bed
because when I wake up in the morning if
I wake up to a dirty house we got issues
how tall are you I am five five tea or
coffee
I definitely drink both but I love my
tea in the morning sweet or salty I like
both to be honest I like to eat them
together last person you kissed I'll say
Ezra
I believe I kissed her last night before
bed because I kiss all my kids before
bed what is your opinion on the current
Kardashians um I don't really have an
opinion I I really don't care you know
what they're making their living so I
guess that's how it is opinion on
cigarettes yok if that's a good enough
opinion there are you loud or shy and
person I am shy I am very quiet
I am yeah but to you guys into my like
anyone like if I'm on anything social
media wise I'm loud are you easy to get
along with I would like to believe I am
I think I am I think I am I could be
hard sometimes though no I'm not gonna
toot my horn too hard how do I feel
about abortion oh that's a touchy one um
you know I think everybody has the right
to have their own opinion on it
it's not my place to judge I never will
judge somebody have they had with it or
if they have their own feelings about it
I think there are circumstances where
sometimes abortion is necessary and when
I say that please hear me out that when
I say that I had a family member that
was in a car accident they were 12 weeks
pregnant they knew they were pregnant
they did not disclose the information to
anybody else though
and so when they got into the car
accident the pelvic bone of the person
was broken she had to go through
multiple x-rays and MRIs and casts cans
and all those good things and they did
not know she was pregnant
so when they found out she was pregnant
they said that there was probably a lot
of damage to the baby due to her pelvic
already being broke and all the
radiation that was fed out from the
machines and that they believe that the
baby probably would have been born with
a lot wrong with it so they felt the
need and plus this person that was
carrying the baby would have had to be
complete flat for the entire pregnancy
due to the pelvic bone being broken so
it was not a situation where it would
have been safe for the baby or for the
person and they decided to do a medical
abortion at that place I would say that
I fully understand you know the
situation however I don't care what the
circumstances are everybody has the
right to choose what they feel they are
their own person for me personally I
have a lot of strong feelings about
abortion but that is because I have had
a miscarriage a late miscarriage meaning
I had a baby at 19 weeks and I would do
anything to have my baby so sometimes
it's hard to understand how somebody
could go in and have an abortion when
they would be able to hold that
pregnancy and carry it through and they
sometimes people don't feel like
adoption is the easiest thing because
they can't get their minds to allow
themselves to give up the baby after
carrying it for nine months there's
multiple things
for why I feel the way I do but again I
would never ever ever cast judgment
against anybody that had a an abortion
it's not again my place to judge I am
NOT that person and I am not in that
person's shoes so at that point that
takes me from having an opinion to not
having an opinion and my feelings out of
it
do I like big crowds no huh
No do you believe in luck or miracles I
believe in both why not
what are bad habits of mine oh you guys
are know picking the lips and biting the
nails do you wish you were lighter or
darker skinned I would love to be a
little bit darker skinned where do I
want to travel to um I would love to go
to Paris I would love to go and travel
Paris and Australia and meet some of my
subbies do you think age matters in a
relationship absolutely not I don't
think that you can ever place age on
love love isn't placed on it I love age
cannot scale in the matter of love and a
relationship do you smile at strangers
absolutely I do I think that smiley no
strangers is one of the best medicine
that you can give to anybody that's that
smile might change someone's life
forever so yes I smile at everybody I
may not get a smile back and that's okay
but I know where I'm at in life and that
is I need to smile at everybody and let
them know that I see them that they're
valued enough to stop and smile at and
even say ho so anyways I hope you guys
enjoyed this Q and a again don't forget
to go check out my friend life by Jen's
Channel this is also a collaboration
with her so she is also posting up her
Q&A; so let's get to know each other and
get to know a little bit more about each
other's YouTube channels and I will see
you guys again very soon bye bye